‘My Child is Struggling to Read’ and Here is Exactly What to Do Next
By Sarah Fudge, M.Ed. | Saybrook Reading and OG Learning Lab
You have been watching your child struggle with reading. Maybe for months. Maybe longer. You have seen the frustration, the tears, the avoidance. You have heard the excuses at homework time and watched the gap between your child and their peers quietly widen.
You are not imagining it. And you are not alone in watching your child struggle learning to read.
Dyslexia affects approximately 20 percent of the population, making it the most common learning difference in the world.
According to the Yale Center for Dyslexia and Creativity, it is a neurological, language-based learning difference that creates an unexpected difficulty in reading for individuals who have the intelligence to be much stronger readers. It is not a vision problem. It is not a reflection of effort. And it is not something a child can outgrow without the right instruction. The longer you wait for the right instruction, the further your child falls behind.
The most important thing you can do right now is stop waiting.
What Is Actually Happening in a Dyslexic Child's Brain
Dyslexia is rooted in phonological processing, which is the ability to recognize and work with the sounds within spoken words.
According to NIH-funded brain imaging research, children with dyslexia process written language differently in the brain. The areas that typically handle reading work in an atypical pattern, making the process of connecting letters to sounds significantly harder than it should be.
Research published in PMC by the National Institutes of Health confirms that dyslexia has a neurobiological origin and is heavily influenced by genetics. But dyslexia doesn’t have to be a lifelong limitation. Many adults with dyslexia flourish in a range of careers, and many children with dyslexia are among the most creative, curious, and intellectually capable learners in any classroom.
They are simply working with a brain that needs a different kind of instruction.
The Most Dangerous Piece of Advice: ‘Wait and See’
One of the most common things parents are told is to wait until third grade before seeking help. This advice is not just unhelpful. It is actively harmful.
Research cited by Reading Rockets and the NIH shows that 74 percent of children who display reading problems in third grade will remain poor readers into adulthood unless they receive specialized instruction.
That statistic is worth reading again.
Waiting is not a neutral decision. Every year without the right instruction is a year of compounding difficulty, compounding self-doubt, and compounding distance from grade-level expectations.
A 2023 meta-analysis published in Reading Research Quarterly reviewed 40 years of reading intervention research across more than 6,000 students.
The findings were unambiguous: early, intensive, structured intervention produces significantly stronger reading outcomes. The more frequent the sessions the larger the gains. The earlier the intervention begins, the more effectively the brain can build the pathways needed for fluent reading.
Early intervention is not an advantage.
It is the difference between a child who learns to read and one who spends their entire school career working around a gap that was never addressed.
Signs That Your Child's Reading Struggles May Be Dyslexia
Not every reading struggle is dyslexia. But certain patterns are worth taking seriously. The following signs, across any age group, warrant a closer look:
• Reading feels like significant effort even after consistent, dedicated instruction at home or school
• Your child guesses words based on the first letter rather than sounding them out
• Spelling is unpredictable and inconsistent, even with words your child has seen many times
• Reading aloud is slow, choppy, or filled with substitutions and omissions
• Your child understands everything when you read aloud to them but struggles to access text independently
• Strong verbal skills that do not match reading or writing ability
• Avoidance, frustration, or emotional distress that seems disproportionate to the task
• A family history of reading difficulties, dyslexia, or learning differences
The International Dyslexia Association notes that dyslexia exists on a continuum of severity and can present differently in each child. If several of the signs above resonate with your experience of your child, that is meaningful information worth acting on.
What the School Is Required to Do
There is a federal law called Child Find, established under the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA). Child Find requires every public school district to actively identify, locate, and evaluate all children who may have a disability and need special education services. This includes children in private schools and homeschool settings. This evaluation is free — and it can be the first step toward helping your child
Here is what you can do right now:
• Ask your child's teacher for data from any reading screeners or assessments the school has administered
• Request a written explanation of how your child is performing relative to grade-level benchmarks
• Put your request for an evaluation in writing. Once the school receives a written request, federal timelines are triggered
• Know that under IDEA, if a school cannot provide a free appropriate public education in-district, they are required to fund an appropriate outside placement
You do not have to wait for the school to bring this to you. You have the right to initiate the conversation, and the law is on your side.
What Actually Works: The Science Behind Structured Literacy
Not all reading programs are created equal.
The National Reading Panel, commissioned by the National Institutes of Health, identified five essential components of evidence-based reading instruction: phonemic awareness, phonics, fluency, vocabulary, and comprehension.
Programs that do not address all five components are not sufficient for children with dyslexia.
The Orton-Gillingham approach is backed by decades of peer-reviewed research and is widely regarded as the gold standard for students with dyslexia and language-based learning differences.
Recognized by the International Dyslexia Association as a structured literacy instructional approach, OG incorporates all five of those components in a way that is explicit, systematic, sequential, and multisensory.The 2023 meta-analysis in Reading Research Quarterly confirmed significant positive effects of structured, multicomponent reading interventions across 40 years of research. The research is clear. The method works. What struggling children need is consistent access to a practitioner who is trained to deliver it.
What You Can Do Right Now
You do not need a formal diagnosis before your child can begin receiving structured literacy instruction. If your child is showing signs of dyslexia, the right instruction can and should begin immediately while an evaluation is underway. Here are your concrete next steps:
• Trust your instincts. You know your child. If something feels off, it is worth pursuing.
• Request a comprehensive evaluation through your local school district at no cost. Ask for it in writing and keep a copy for your records.
• Seek out a specialist trained in the Orton-Gillingham approach. Look for credentials through the Academy of Orton-Gillingham, which sets the standard for practitioner training.
• Do not wait for the evaluation to begin intervention. Structured literacy instruction can start now and run alongside the school's evaluation process.
• Document everything. Keep records of all school communications, assessment results, and your child's progress. This documentation protects your child's rights and strengthens any future advocacy.
Yes, Your Child Can Love Reading
With the right instruction, children with dyslexia can and do become capable, confident readers. The research on this is unambiguous.
According to the International Dyslexia Association, children who receive effective phonological awareness and phonics training in kindergarten and first grade have significantly fewer problems learning to read at grade level than those who are not identified or helped until third grade. It is never too late to intervene. But the earlier the better, and the more intensive the instruction, the stronger the outcomes.
Your child is not broken. They are not lazy. They are not less than. They are a bright, capable human being whose brain processes language differently. And with the right instruction, there is nothing they cannot achieve.
I know this because I was one of those children. I sat in the lowest reading groups. I was labeled. I was told, implicitly and explicitly, that I was behind. What nobody knew was how smart I really was. And what nobody gave me was the right instruction.
I built Saybrook Reading and OG Learning Lab because no child should spend their school years wondering what is wrong with them when nothing is wrong with them at all.
Do you have a struggling reader at home? Take the first step toward the help that they need. We offer free consultations for parents to learn about effective support programs.
At Saybrook Reading and OG Learning Lab, every consultation is free. We help families understand their child's assessment data, navigate the school system, and connect their child with the expert literacy instruction they deserve. Visit saybrookreading.com or email us at info@saybrookreading.com to schedule your free consultation today.
Every child deserves to feel confident in school.
Sarah Fudge, M.Ed. is a Connecticut-certified special education teacher and literacy specialist with a Master's degree in Reading, a 092 administrator endorsement, and specialized training through the Academy of Orton-Gillingham. She is the founder of Saybrook Reading (Old Saybrook, CT), OG Learning Lab (Portland, CT), The Learning Lab Foundation, and the Dyslexia Stories podcast. Sarah has dyslexia herself and has spent her career building the resources she wished had existed when she was a child.
Research Citations
Source: Yale Center for Dyslexia and Creativity — Definition and Prevalence of Dyslexia
Source: NIH / Reading Rockets — Brain Research and Dyslexia
Source: Hall et al. (2023) — Forty Years of Reading Intervention Research, Reading Research Quarterly
Source: NIH — Early Identification and Interventions for Dyslexia, PMC
Source: International Dyslexia Association — Frequently Asked Questions
Source: International Dyslexia Association — Structured Literacy and Orton-Gillingham
Source: National Reading Panel — Five Components of Evidence-Based Reading Instruction
Source: Child Find — IDEA Section 300.111
Source: Academy of Orton-Gillingham — Practitioner Credentialing